Book of Memories for Eric Jason Cochran

Condolence From M.B. Kilmer Funeral Home and staff

Wed, 17 Feb 2016 08:55:40 EST

We are remembering Eric and his family as the first anniversary of his passing approaches.

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Tue, 02 Jun 2015 13:02:24 EDT

Christmas 2013 Brother & sister love. ♡

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Tue, 02 Jun 2015 12:46:21 EDT

Some of you may not know this, but when Eric was 4 years old doctors discovered a hole in his heart and my little boy went through open heart surgery. That’s why he had that scar on his chest. Funny, he hated it. I told him that it was his war wound and that he should be proud of it. He was my little soldier. I remember it breaking my heart as I watched them wheel him through the double doors to the operating room. It was a life changing, heart wrenching moment for me. Now, 16 years later, the hole in my heart is so big as I say goodbye to my son. It has been said, “she who loves much grieves much”……I grieve so very very much. I will carry Eric in my heart forever and treasure all of the memories of his precious life, trusting God to bring healing to my broken heart in time. I met a woman recently who has also lost a child to suicide. She encouraged me to try to focus my thoughts not on his death and the many questions I have that will never be answered this side of heaven, and to instead think about all that Eric was and the many good memories of his life. Her advice has helped me to get through my days and, as a way of celebrating his life, I want to share with you some of the many thoughts and memories I have of my son. …….. --As a baby Eric was happy. Always laughing and kicking. He was a great sleeper. --I picture his laugh as a child. He laughed all the time. Mariah has his laugh. --He used to sing a song for me: “Pretty mama of mine”. --Batman and Superman were his childhood heros and he loved to put the cape on on fly around the house, jumping from the couch as he tried to fly. --When Kaitlin was born he became a proud big brother to her. He was helpful, not jealous. --He loved vanilla ice cream, even when Baskin Robbins offered him endless flavor choices. --Eric had dancing hands. --He loved to sing (and sang often in the shower). --His favorite colors were blue and green and one of his favorite foods was hot wings. --He loved baseball, starting his career at ager 5. I got to be team mom the year he played on the, “New York Yankees”. Go figure J --My “wild child” loved “big trucks” , go carts and motorcycles. I remember he used to go fast in his go cart. One day he flipped the cart, got right up and checked to make sure his face was OK J When Eric was older and dad bought a motorcycle it was a gift for Eric too, for they went on many rides together. Now, about his heart, his great big heart: --Eric was a sensitive soul, compassionate, friendly and very very caring. He was a good listener and used to tell me that other people felt comfortable sharing their hearts with him wherever he was. He was real and I think that drew people to him. --When he was young he used to help nana bake in the kitchen while making music with her pots and pans. His helpful spirit never went away. I miss my time with him in the kitchen, too. --He loved his mom and his nana and was spoiled with love in return. --He was a big goof. Only Eric, on a dare, would dance around my car at a stoplight the way he did recently. --He was a family man. He loved his family and especially his precious daughter Mariah. Mariah was his pride and joy, a gift. She was made out of love and I see him in her. They used to watch the movie Frozen again and again and sing, “Let it Go” together. I’ll never forget that. And on Saturday she and I sang it as we climbed Prospect mountain in his memory. I will treasure that forever. Eric was my best friend. I was young when I had him, and, in so many ways we grew up together. He saved me. As a young mom he was my world. He kept me going and gave me purpose. I miss him so much…

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Mon, 27 Apr 2015 20:53:32 EDT

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Mon, 27 Apr 2015 20:46:24 EDT

Eric, Christen, and their daughter Mariah

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Mon, 27 Apr 2015 20:45:09 EDT

Eric and his daughter, Mariah

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Mon, 27 Apr 2015 20:42:57 EDT

Eric & Christen Cochran 07/06/2012

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Condolence From cathy richards

Fri, 27 Feb 2015 17:53:10 EST

Dear donna and jeremy and kids I am so very sorry. I am praying for your family. Love cathy

Condolence From Nora and Arvin Quarters

Fri, 27 Feb 2015 12:59:43 EST

Donna and Jeremy and family, There are NO words that could ever take the pain away from you...If it were possible I sure would give them to you. All I can offer is my love and my prayers to all of you for years to come. I am so very sorry for your loss. We love you and mourn with you. I support now and have been for years, because of my sister, Suicide prevention .. Maybe one day you can be a spokes person for this cause..They need you..We need you. Lots of love and hugs..

Memorial Candle lit by Cindy Corey

Fri, 27 Feb 2015 09:40:28 EST

Aunt Cindy,Samuel & Lucas,Kristin & Family. Brionna & Family.

Memorial Candle lit by Jeremy Corey

Fri, 27 Feb 2015 08:11:40 EST

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Fri, 27 Feb 2015 05:21:00 EST

Condolence From kelly

Fri, 27 Feb 2015 05:18:39 EST

Eric was a high school friend who had a huge heart & always was there for others..don't know some days what I would have done without his uplifting wwords.hes going to be missed..my thoughts are with his family & other friends..Rip eric FLY HIGH☆

Condolence From Uncle Dale Corey

Thu, 26 Feb 2015 16:03:27 EST

My prayers are with you all in this time need. If you need anything let more know.

Condolence From Aunt Mary in SC

Thu, 26 Feb 2015 10:47:03 EST

I love U forever and miss U always. Enjoyed teaching u to throw and catch a ball. U went on to play ball and made all-stars for many years. That was so fun..so proud of U. U were a good sport. Prayers to all the family. May peace and comfort be found for each.

Condolence From Suszyne Burch

Thu, 26 Feb 2015 06:19:39 EST

I didn't know Eric, but I am a teacher at Hartford and know some of his siblings. Please know that we are thinking of you and your family during this time. My heart aches trying to understand what you all are going through. From the sounds of things he has touched many lives, may his memory live on with all of you.

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Thu, 26 Feb 2015 03:46:33 EST

Condolence From Dobbins Family California

Wed, 25 Feb 2015 20:21:28 EST

Our prayers are with you all. May God comfort you and heal your pain. We love you all.